Everything. New phone, new laptop, more clothes, more bling. Piercings. Despite always wanting I’ve made it through life without any tattoos so far (which I’m also kinda glad about because I’m pretty sure I would have something edgy and cringy if I’d done it when I was younger). So, tattoos. Decent healthcare, dental care, mental care.
Also, I lied. I’m not actually saving up money for anything right now. But if I had money that could be saved up, these are things that I would be saving up for right now lol.
Edit: actually real answer, enough money to do some sort of course or diploma and aim for something better in life.
Btw, sorry that I can never answer anything without waffling on lol. This is why I suck at Twitter and Bluesky. And I don’t talk this much in real life. So feel free to not even read, clearly I’m on some sort of high right now.
It definitely seems like getting tattoos is addictive. I still haven’t got as far as the ‘what’ yet myself. I want it to have some sort of small meaning but not be pretentious either. So some object / animal / creature that looks cool but I can also have some reason for, even if only I know the reason. The only thing I know for sure is that I’ve always wanted henna style tattoos on my hands ever since I was a kid drawing on my hands with a pen in school lol. But that would probably make me even more unemployable, so education first.
But as for an education, either something writing related or programming related. My main goal is something without a dress code or someone breathing down my neck. Preferably WFH. I don’t need to be rich, just more than surviving and happy. Writing would be the more ‘laid back’ route for me, my writing has become feral over the years but it was the thing in school that I could get As for with my eyes closed.
Programming would be the route with harder work and probably involve doing jobs that don’t thrill me as much as writing. But it would also help for my art because I start making games in my spare time and exercise the writing, drawing (pixel art) and music making part of my soul at the same time.
Also, by all accounts, teaching English as a foreign language sounds like it nets a decent but humble little income too. And would also be fairly laid back and allow time for side projects.
Uh, basically the story of my life is being undecided about what I really want to do with myself.
Your tattoo idea is really sensible, really solid idea. Main thing I’ll say is save the money to do it right 100% worth it.
Funnily enough my friends a programmer even though she’s good at writing! She’s wfh on a really good wage even though she only started it a few years ago
I didn’t ask about yours but I did see lurking (and upvoting) in women’s stuff that you got a unicorn! I think a mythical / fantasy creature is an awesome idea. And I’m assuming that’s your start?
Also, to avoid another double reply, jokes about the USA aside, hope you have a great time there.
Yep a unicorn! I’ve got 5 now I think the unicorn might be my favourite. I’m not allowed another one for a year cos 5 in 2 years is excessive (making up for lost time)
I deeply and spiritually identify with this statement right now. Me too, or at least I aim to. I’m glad to hear that you’re choosing to feed your soul and I hope that each one of those tatts makes you feel more like you.
Honestly, if you dig tattoos and have the money to spend on them, why not? A friend of mine also got a bunch of tattoos in a really short time, probably also like 4-5 within a year or so, and has been very happy with them. Tattoos are for your enjoyment first and foremost, so who’s to tell you when you’ve had enough?
I just got my second one back in November and am really happy with it. Already brainstorming ideas for new ones. Really does feel like once you’ve started, there’s no stopping. But money’s always an issue for as long as my apprenticeship is going on
Everything. New phone, new laptop, more clothes, more bling. Piercings. Despite always wanting I’ve made it through life without any tattoos so far (which I’m also kinda glad about because I’m pretty sure I would have something edgy and cringy if I’d done it when I was younger). So, tattoos. Decent healthcare, dental care, mental care.
Also, I lied. I’m not actually saving up money for anything right now. But if I had money that could be saved up, these are things that I would be saving up for right now lol.
Edit: actually real answer, enough money to do some sort of course or diploma and aim for something better in life.
I’m in my 40s only just started getting tattoos now I’m obsessed. What would you get done? And what diploma would you do?
Btw, sorry that I can never answer anything without waffling on lol. This is why I suck at Twitter and Bluesky. And I don’t talk this much in real life. So feel free to not even read, clearly I’m on some sort of high right now.
It definitely seems like getting tattoos is addictive. I still haven’t got as far as the ‘what’ yet myself. I want it to have some sort of small meaning but not be pretentious either. So some object / animal / creature that looks cool but I can also have some reason for, even if only I know the reason. The only thing I know for sure is that I’ve always wanted henna style tattoos on my hands ever since I was a kid drawing on my hands with a pen in school lol. But that would probably make me even more unemployable, so education first.
But as for an education, either something writing related or programming related. My main goal is something without a dress code or someone breathing down my neck. Preferably WFH. I don’t need to be rich, just more than surviving and happy. Writing would be the more ‘laid back’ route for me, my writing has become feral over the years but it was the thing in school that I could get As for with my eyes closed.
Programming would be the route with harder work and probably involve doing jobs that don’t thrill me as much as writing. But it would also help for my art because I start making games in my spare time and exercise the writing, drawing (pixel art) and music making part of my soul at the same time.
Also, by all accounts, teaching English as a foreign language sounds like it nets a decent but humble little income too. And would also be fairly laid back and allow time for side projects.
Uh, basically the story of my life is being undecided about what I really want to do with myself.
Your tattoo idea is really sensible, really solid idea. Main thing I’ll say is save the money to do it right 100% worth it.
Funnily enough my friends a programmer even though she’s good at writing! She’s wfh on a really good wage even though she only started it a few years ago
I didn’t ask about yours but I did see lurking (and upvoting) in women’s stuff that you got a unicorn! I think a mythical / fantasy creature is an awesome idea. And I’m assuming that’s your start?
Also, to avoid another double reply, jokes about the USA aside, hope you have a great time there.
Yep a unicorn! I’ve got 5 now I think the unicorn might be my favourite. I’m not allowed another one for a year cos 5 in 2 years is excessive (making up for lost time)
And thanks mate sure I will
I deeply and spiritually identify with this statement right now. Me too, or at least I aim to. I’m glad to hear that you’re choosing to feed your soul and I hope that each one of those tatts makes you feel more like you.
Thank you so much for that, a few people have been weird about how many I’ve got in such a short time. They really do make me feel more like me
Honestly, if you dig tattoos and have the money to spend on them, why not? A friend of mine also got a bunch of tattoos in a really short time, probably also like 4-5 within a year or so, and has been very happy with them. Tattoos are for your enjoyment first and foremost, so who’s to tell you when you’ve had enough?
I just got my second one back in November and am really happy with it. Already brainstorming ideas for new ones. Really does feel like once you’ve started, there’s no stopping. But money’s always an issue for as long as my apprenticeship is going on